While we don’t have any credit card debt now, except for 0% APR balance transfers, there was a time when we did. While we never let our credit cards get completely out of control, we did build up several thousand dollars on our credit cards when I first got out of college.

So having gotten into card debt and then climbed out of it, we’ve learned many of the causes of this financial pain. The fact is, we can talk ourselves into using our credit cards in ways that will hurt our finances down the road.

So here are 10 lies we tell ourselves that get us in credit card debt and keep us there.

It’s an emergency. Often we go into debt by convincing ourselves that we have an emergency. Certainly there are times when a true emergency arises. Medical expenses are a good example of a real crisis. But many times what we call an emergency isn’t really an emergency. Whether it’s a second car that needs repair, or even our child’s college education, we can often go without addressing what at first seems like an urgent expense. If life or liberty isn’t at stake, it’s probably not a true emergency.

We deserve it. This one has snagged us more than once. After working so hard to save money and spend wisely, sometimes we let our guard down under the guise of a reward. Perhaps you’ve had a hard week at work, and spending $150 on a fancy dinner that you can’t really afford seems like a good idea and something you’ve earned. The problem is that it’s like taking one step forward, two steps back. The “reward” just digs you deeper and deeper into debt.

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